Discipline and communication

When the children to adolescence , many parents will find that one day it can not be with their children two things . So, how can there be opportunities to learn , to teach children what ?

Do not communicate with their children , there is no opportunity to understand them, of course it can not be taught . For this reason, when children are young , parents should establish the basis for communication ; such children grow up , they have been accustomed to have something with their parents , said parents are not afraid to communicate .

Small children can not speak , through the eyes and the contact between parent-child communication . Other children will speak, they put their parents as role models , learn how to express , to speak . If the big people always say "thank you" , they will often say so ; If adults are always vulgar loud, abusive language will be loud . Model as a child , parents should review the desirability of their tone words , or quickly improved .

Like to talk with their parents want a child , the most important is that parents do not any of the following acts:

1, brutally interrupted

Children not finish, the first break , their thoughts also will be truncated. Again, he does notOpeningParents have known that he would like to say what he really did not need to say anything . Keep up the child to maintain good communication state , the most important thing is to listen more talk less , give children the opportunity to speak , his attentive and observation.

2 , mock innocent children

Young children , thought the natural immature , naive to speak understandable . If parents laugh at their childish innocence , so that it feels awkward , since not dareOpeningThe . Thin-skinned child, would be angry after being made fun of , or even hatred , that this would not re-Opening.

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Chatting with the children often teach them to criticize their choice of words , each case so that they , as the chat as Juela , Heart of fear, would not take the initiative to communicate with their parents .

4 , the children compared with others

Often the child to him, and praise other people's children , believing that this would encourage children to follow the others, in fact backfire . Kids hate my parents so , than people than the dead . To accept their children as a direct point out their strengths , and be commended , this would produce encouraging .

If you avoid the above points , I believe that the child would be happy to chat with their parents ; have the opportunity to chat , nature can communicate , promote mutual understanding. Family can have something to tell the story , said that past , talked about the child childhood anecdotes , memories of their parents fall in love wonderful things , not only to attract children, also increased the joy .