You might just think that if you play on your ex's sympathy and beg and plead with her to take you back again that it will work. Well, how wrong you are! This will have exactly the opposite effect, believe me. She wants a strong, mature man in her life, and you will come across as a weak, pathetic idiot - not the kind of person she needs in her life, so you will NOT get your ex girlfriend back this way!
You need to impress upon her that you are the kind of guy that she can depend on and lean on if necessary, so change your attitude and give her what she wants. Be a man and admit to any mistakes you have made, and, above all, apologize for them as well - it takes guts to do this, and she'll admire you for it!
So, even though you may be nervous, make that call to her. When she answers, apologize immediately for hurting her and making her angry. Tell her that you know exactly what you did that caused the break up and that you plan to fix these mistakes right now.
Also tell her that you respect her wishes to end the relationship, and that you hope she will be happy. End the call by saying that you are only doing this because you care so much about her, and will do absolutely anything, even stay away from her, as long as it makes her happy.
Now you might think that you have just spoilt your last chance to get your ex girlfriend back, but believe me it will work wonders in bringing the two of you together again! She will be really impressed at how mature you are about the whole thing, and will also realize how strong and manly you are. In short, it will get her thinking of you a lot in a more positive way, and will possibly get her thinking about getting back with you as well.
Knowing that you are willing to give her up completely to ensure that she I happy, will more than likely get her thinking that being in a relationship with you is not so bad after all, and could result in you getting your ex girlfriend back.
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