For his wife to know how to respect the mother , to know her mother is not just making things difficult , often she is right , especially my mother walked the last two years , I used to think she making things difficult for me, but looking back she still others are right . Why she can live to 91 years old ? I forgot she also has many places to eat right. Looking back now, I try to think about where she is doing right, that we can to emulate . She could live to such a long time that many of us think that her health before the wrong place , in fact, the phase error and the addition and subtraction , she has many positive points of the place , so we try to think of her mother on the local , Is of course sad that she 's making things difficult for us . However, you can put your worries and cares to God, because he will think upon us , so when we can not easily or can not find the time when the export to Xuanxie , you can talk to God , God is heard and prayer , Sad people will take comfort in God , do not always Quwang wife 's also the negative think .
So if we are wronged when the daughter- in time , or feel that they have been unfairly treated when the patient must go on this way , should not have any communication with her mother and communication ? In a gentle manner and her mother to communicate , to talk about his idea is not feasible ? This should be feasible, but not in the event of conflicting opinions when speaking . Sometimes differences of opinion when the mind will think in the end what is right, you find an appropriate occasion to a more accurate communication between them . Most years, the older mother is to be treated on their feelings , if the time to talk , then you are a moderate tone , they are considered guilty , they look for other opportunities to speak .
We are Chinese -law relationships are more like a negative example . My mother six months before his death , she was hospitalized , I am just very busy , with many of the functions to be done . One day I came , God arrangements are just , I do not believe any mother who , she said to me, "You two should be 24 hours in the ward with me . " Hospital nurses in the United States to investigate 24-hour shift ward , we do not have 24 hours to accompany , so we sometimes slept while her mother , helping them use gap thing . She say this , I just feel she needs us, we have one between her only believe. In fact, many times but she would not say hello , but she knew Hello , I encouraged when her mother , when you know the wife of the Hi , you can say something to her heart some comfort , she will try even harder .
When the mother of a friend does , I hope you have one hand on the son, daughter learn to let go , on the other hand can also be more to enjoy , to express your recognition of them , give them more encouragement. I want my son to hear his mother -law wife , this can be like them , they would in a more positive attitude to honor the elderly .
If we are children of God , since we want to live a life pleasing to God , we have to think about how God wants me to do this mother ? God wanted me, when her mother what kind of attitude towards them? What is the teaching of the Bible teach ? Married after the child had their own lives , not like before, the children did not get married before or was a child, must make decisions in power , everything to interfere , to control them, this is not an attitude in line with God's own heart .
So if we are wronged when the daughter- in time , or feel that they have been unfairly treated when the patient must go on this way , should not have any communication with her mother and communication ? In a gentle manner and her mother to communicate , to talk about his idea is not feasible ? This should be feasible, but not in the event of conflicting opinions when speaking . Sometimes differences of opinion when the mind will think in the end what is right, you find an appropriate occasion to a more accurate communication between them . Most years, the older mother is to be treated on their feelings , if the time to talk , then you are a moderate tone , they are considered guilty , they look for other opportunities to speak .
We are Chinese -law relationships are more like a negative example . My mother six months before his death , she was hospitalized , I am just very busy , with many of the functions to be done . One day I came , God arrangements are just , I do not believe any mother who , she said to me, "You two should be 24 hours in the ward with me . " Hospital nurses in the United States to investigate 24-hour shift ward , we do not have 24 hours to accompany , so we sometimes slept while her mother , helping them use gap thing . She say this , I just feel she needs us, we have one between her only believe. In fact, many times but she would not say hello , but she knew Hello , I encouraged when her mother , when you know the wife of the Hi , you can say something to her heart some comfort , she will try even harder .
When the mother of a friend does , I hope you have one hand on the son, daughter learn to let go , on the other hand can also be more to enjoy , to express your recognition of them , give them more encouragement. I want my son to hear his mother -law wife , this can be like them , they would in a more positive attitude to honor the elderly .
If we are children of God , since we want to live a life pleasing to God , we have to think about how God wants me to do this mother ? God wanted me, when her mother what kind of attitude towards them? What is the teaching of the Bible teach ? Married after the child had their own lives , not like before, the children did not get married before or was a child, must make decisions in power , everything to interfere , to control them, this is not an attitude in line with God's own heart .
When the son as a wife , especially our Christian nation, we must also be taught according to the Scriptures , know how to honor our parents , to take care of our parents . Increasing age of the parents , more and more weak body , their lives may become increasingly scarce , we also need to take care of all aspects , to provide money and material aspects of care . On the other hand , when our parents or elderly people , if our demands are excessive , they are some of our attitude is unreasonable , God give us more gentle and patient 's heart. Of course you can communicate with them on the gentle and humble of communication , but if , after communication , or no way to really change them, we can pray for them more . I believe the Spirit of God in their hearts will continue to start , I believe God will make us build more harmonious , more and music , more intimate , more beautiful relationship .
Lord help us all when the mother when the wife 's , can be pleasing to God -law , daughter- pleasing to God , is a son pleasing to God .
Lord help us all when the mother when the wife 's , can be pleasing to God -law , daughter- pleasing to God , is a son pleasing to God .
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